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40 Week 3, Day 5 of Lent

“Look! I stand at the door and knock.
If you hear my voice and open the door,
I will come in,
and we will share a meal together as friends.”

Revelation 3:20, NLT

I don’t know about you, but I get excited when someone knocks or rings my doorbell!  That means someone has come to see me, and if they are family or friends, they are always welcome.  I love to visit, share a meal or a snack, play games, and just enjoy each other’s company.

Posture.  How is your posture?  When you’re sitting, do you slouch or sit up straight?  When standing, are your shoulders bent over with the weight of the world or are your shoulders squared back with confidence in the Lord?  In this verse Jesus is the one talking and He says He is standing.  When we’re sitting, if we want to take a step, we have to stand first which requires action.  Standing indicates that we are ready to move.  Jesus was ready to move, knocking, and ready to step through the door when it opened.

Action.  Jesus stands at the heart’s door and is ready to raise His hand to knock.  I have one friend who never rings the doorbell but always knocks, so I know by that simple action who it is at my door.  I had some relatives who never knocked nor rang the doorbell; they just walked right in.  They could do that because there was a doorknob and they had a key.

One day I noticed some salesmen canvassing my neighborhood and I wasn’t interested in what they had to sell.  So I locked my storm door and closed all the curtains so they couldn’t look in to see if anyone was home.  I’m glad I did because they knocked, but when I didn’t answer, they jiggled the door. 

Jesus can’t walk right in like my relatives nor force His way in like the salesmen were attempting to do.  Why?  Because for one, He’s a gentleman and doesn’t force anyone to do anything.  He wants our love and commitment willingly.  Second, there is no handle on the door to our heart.  It must be opened from the inside.

Response.  When a person hears Him knocking at their heart’s door, they must respond to let Him in just like we must open the door for a guest when our door is locked.  Just as I did not respond to the salesmen jiggling my door, many people do not respond to Jesus when He knocks or tries to get their attention.  He wants us to come to Him of our own accord.  We need to open the door wide and let Him into our heart so He can do His work in us.  If you shoo Him away, He will go away sad that you didn’t allow Him in.

Jesus doesn’t just knock at the door.  He also calls out to you by name.  He wants you to hear His voice so you’ll know it is Him.  Do you recognize it?

Invitation.  Jesus invites us to have a relationship with Him, but you need to RSVP to that invitation with your own invitation to come in.  When a guest comes to your door, do you invite them inside and keep them at the door, or do you invite them into the living room or the kitchen?  If you stand just inside the door and don’t move any further, it would be like saying, OK, you can come in, but only this far.  But if you invite them into your living area, you are saying, you’re welcome to make yourself at home hereLet me put on some coffee and let’s talk and share.

Sharing.  Jesus tells us in this verse that when we invite Him in, we can share a meal together as friends.  It’s so much nicer to eat with someone than it is eating alone.  Even if I am the one cooking, it’s still fun to have someone eat with me and enjoy my service.  If I am invited to go out or to someone’s home, it’s even better because I can relax and enjoy the fellowship without the work.

Hearing.  It all starts with hearing the knock at the door.  If we ignore that knock we heard and the voice that calls out to us, and don’t respond by opening the door, we will not have the fellowship with the Lord that is so necessary for our spiritual lives.  Do you hear?  Are you listening?  Then have you responded?

In the next post we’ll learn what Samuel did when he heard a voice.

PRAYER POINT FOR TODAY:
Lord, when I hear Your voice, give me Your strength to be willing to answer Your call and do what You ask.

  • Week 1 – temptation
  • Week 2 – confession, forgiveness, and fasting
  • Week 3 – listening to God and answering when He calls
  • Week 4 – God’s love for us
  • Week 5 – waiting, anxiety, and trust
  • Week 6 – suffering, pain, and struggles
  • Easter – resurrection and salvation

39 Week 3, Day 4 of Lent

“Consequently, faith comes from hearing the message,
and the message is heard through the word about Christ.”

Romans 10:17, NIV

Have you ever wondered how players in a baseball, hockey, or football game could hear the commands of their coach above the noise of the crowd?  I think they would know from training what they are to do in any given situation.  I also think they would have to train themselves to block out the “advice” of the crowd.  If the players listened to the crowd instead of what their coach said, they could make a wrong move.  We need to listen to our Head Coach, not the world.

Source.  When you look for a product or service and ask for referrals, you would consider the source.  If it came from a company or person who had a bad reputation, you probably wouldn’t pursue the object of that referral.  When we hear a voice, it is just as important to make sure that the voice is God’s and not of the world.  So how do we know whose voice we are hearing?

Trace it.  I used to have a ton of tangled cords behind my desk and it was hard to tell which one went to which device.  The only way to figure out which plug was to the printer was to trace it back from the device to the outlet.   We can do the same with voices we hear.  Look for the person who said it, the context, the sincerity, and the background.

Who said it?  Whether it was written, online, or someone actually spoke it, identify who said it.  Is it someone you know and trust?  Are they trustworthy?  Are they tuned in to God?  Where did they get their information or knowledge?  I am very careful when I go to the internet and search a question or explanation, especially when it is in relation to the Word of God.  Here’s a couple things I look at:

  • The website itself—the title, who it belongs to, what kind of content is included on that website
  • Who promotes the website and the author—Is it someone who is or could be a false teacher?
  • Are they using the Word of God or some other source of information?  Are they quoting sources that are not true to the Bible?  Or worse yet, taking it out of context.

How and where did you hear it?  Faith comes from hearing.  Hearing what?  The message.  Message of what?  The Word of God.  It doesn’t say faith comes from hearing and stop there.  What you are hearing is just as important as the fact that you are hearing it.  Analyze what you are hearing.

Ways of hearing.  You might think, only ears hear, so how can there be different ways of hearing?  If you are deaf, you “hear” through your eyes and other senses.  I took a little American Sign Language so I could communicate with those who are deaf.  (Unfortunately it was a long time ago and I’ve forgotten most of it.)  Hearing is a way of communication that travels from voice to ear.  When the ear doesn’t work, signing is an alternative way of communicating that goes from hands to eyes.  Braille is also a hands to eyes alternative communication. 

Aside from hearing with an ear, our eyes are a good way of “hearing” as we read and hear (see) what someone is saying on paper or electronic devices.  Communication in that way is from eyes to brain and ultimately to the heart.

Our approach.  How do you come to God?  Do you come barging in, banging on His door for an answer now?  Do you come quietly and humbly, thanking Him for His work in your life?  Billy Graham once said, “One can approach the Bible with a cold, rationalistic attitude, or one can do so with reverence and the desire to hear God speak.”  If we really want to hear God’s voice, we need to prepare ourselves for coming into His presence.

Recognition.  How do children recognize their parents’ voices?  They’ve heard mom and dad speak to them since the day they were born and even while they were in the womb.  So when they hear their voices, they respond because they know and recognize their voices.  We learn to recognize God’s voice by studying His Word, memorizing it, and hiding it in our hearts.  Then when a voice tries to speak to us that isn’t His, a little warning bell goes off in our mind and heart that says, wait a minute, that doesn’t sound right because it doesn’t match what we know of God’s Word and His heart.  But it will only warn us as far as our knowledge of God’s Word extends.  If we don’t have much of His Word in us, then He can’t use it to warn us.  That’s why it’s so important to hide His Word in our heart and mind.

I hear you!  This is an expression we often use when we are listening to someone give their opinion or experience.  We agree or empathize with them and say I hear you! to let them know that we are listening.  I hope you can say I hear you! to God today.

In the next post we’ll talk about answering the door in response to hearing God’s voice.

PRAYER POINT FOR TODAY:
Lord, help me to hear Your voice through the Bible, sermons, music, and other avenues You choose to speak through. I don’t want to miss what You are saying and I don’t want to mistake someone else’s voice for Yours.

  • Week 1 – temptation
  • Week 2 – confession, forgiveness, and fasting
  • Week 3 – listening to God and answering when He calls
  • Week 4 – God’s love for us
  • Week 5 – waiting, anxiety, and trust
  • Week 6 – suffering, pain, and struggles
  • Easter – resurrection and salvation

38 Week 3, Day 3 of Lent

“Anyone who belongs to God listens
gladly to the words of God.
But you don’t listen
because you don’t belong to God.”

John 8:47, NLT

Today as we focus on listening to God and answering when He calls, a phrase from a Christmas carol comes to my mind:  “Do you hear what I hear?”

Belonging.  My doll belonged to me and no one could take her from me.  In fact, I still have her and she sits on the chest of drawers in my bedroom.  I talked to her in my childhood and pretended she was talking back to me.  We “knew” each other.  The same holds true now with my cat even though she’s deaf.  She knows me when she sees me and recognizes my touch.  When a guest comes, she has to check them out before deciding if she’ll let them near her.

Belonging involves a connection between two or more people or objects.  The beaters in my kitchen closet belong to the electric mixer.  Pairs of things like shoes belong together.  Individuals of a family belong together.  If you are part of a group or organization, you say you belong to it.  How is the connection with God?  Do you belong to Him?

Hearing.  Unless they’re deaf like my cat, everyone can hear the person in the room—or sometimes the neighbor way down the street!  LOL  Hearing just means you have ears and they work.  You hear what the other person says, but that doesn’t mean you’re really listening nor that you’ll respond.  It just means that your ears heard the words.  Some people hear the Lord speaking but choose not to respond.

Listening.  That’s a step above hearing.  Now you not only hear the words, but you’re processing them in your brain and will respond in some fashion.  You acknowledge what your ears hear and prepare to act accordingly.  When you listen, you’re ready and willing to respond to what you heard.

Discerning.  When I hear voices outside or someone comes to my door, I listen to see if I recognize them.  Peepholes are no help when a person covers it up so if I don’t recognize the voice, I don’t answer the door.  That’s how we must be when we hear a voice telling us to do something.  We must discern if the voice is of an authentic person we know, and if it isn’t, don’t answer the “door” (respond to the voice).

Source.  What is the source of the voice?  When I have a voicemail on my phone, if the caller doesn’t say who they are and the message is cryptic or unrelated to anything I’m aware of, I just delete it.  If it is from someone I know or about something I’m involved in, then I know I can trust the source.  With so many spam and fraudulent telemarketers and political callers, it is difficult to know if there is any truth in what they are saying. 

The voice of God does not usually come through sources like newspapers, magazines, and other secular resources, though sometimes God chooses to nudge us through them.  God speaks to us through His Word, the Bible, prayer, other Christians, and Christian publications.  Don’t allow yourself to be influenced or led astray by sources that promote or allow decisions or activities that are not God-honoring and worthy of His blessing.

Unplugged.  Things like cell phones and laptops only work for so long on battery before they need to be recharged.  When I know a storm is heading my way, I plug in all my devices to charge so that if the electric goes out I can still use my devices for a period of time.  That’s especially important when cell phone is your only source of communication in case of emergency.  I always plug my phone in when I go to bed so that it’s fully charged for the next day.  One morning I woke up and my phone was depleted because I discovered that the plug at the outlet had gotten disconnected (probably my cat tripped over the cord and pulled it out).

When we become unplugged from our spiritual source, God, or we never plugged into Him in the first place, we aren’t filled with the wisdom and knowledge He provides and are not drawing on the spiritual source of life needed for this life.  If we aren’t plugged in to the source, we won’t be listening for His voice and won’t hear when He tries to speak to us.

“Anyone with ears to hear
should listen and understand!”

Matthew 11:15, NLT

Faith comes by hearing…more about that in the next post.

PRAYER POINT FOR TODAY:
Lord, help me to listen—really listen—for Your voice. Help me to hear, listen, and understand what You are saying to me each and every day.

  • Week 1 – temptation
  • Week 2 – confession, forgiveness, and fasting
  • Week 3 – listening to God and answering when He calls
  • Week 4 – God’s love for us
  • Week 5 – waiting, anxiety, and trust
  • Week 6 – suffering, pain, and struggles
  • Easter – resurrection and salvation

37 Week 3, Day 2 of Lent

“My sheep listen to my voice;
I know them, and they follow me.”

John 10:27, NIV

This week as we focus on listening to God and answering when He calls, we have an example from the animal kingdom that can teach us a few things.

I like to go different places and take photos that I can use with my blog and devotionals.  So one day I visited the farm of a couple from my church who had sheep.  We know that Jesus used sheep as an example in his parables and teachings.  Let’s find out why. 

Alert.  When sheep hear a voice, their ears perk up.  I walked up to the pen and talked to them, trying to coax them over to the fence, but they just stood and looked at me.  Even the lambs didn’t move towards me.  I would have thought they’d come right to me like little kids usually do, but they didn’t.  When the lady came out to meet me, she explained that they didn’t recognize my voice.  So they just stood and watched and listened.  When you hear a voice, do you listen up and try to discern whose voice it is if you don’t see anyone?

These sheep were in a pen so they couldn’t run away.  When I was little there was a sheep farm behind my grandmother’s house and as soon as I got near the fence, they ran far into the field.  They will not come close to or follow a voice that they don’t recognize.  Oh that we would be like that!  Too often we hear a voice and listen only to find out sometimes too late that it wasn’t who we thought it was.

Familiar.  The sheep also use their other senses.  I didn’t have the “farm scent” on me.  My movements were different than the people they were familiar with.  Nor did I have any food or treats for them.  The lambs stood still by their mama and just watched me until they had a sense of what was going on.  When the lady talked to them, pulled a treat from her pocket, and reached over the fence, they slowly came over to her, still a little hesitant because I was standing next to her.  At first when I tried to pet them, they pulled away, but as I kept talking to them and she gave me a treat for them, they came over to me.

Are you familiar with the voice of our Good Shepherd?  We need to stay close to Him, learn His ways, His words, and know when it is Him speaking.  Sheep easily go astray when they are not paying attention and then find themselves in trouble, needing rescue of the shepherd.  That’s probably where we get the saying from:  “The grass is always greener on the other side.”

Know.  The sheep didn’t know who I was.  They’d never seen me nor heard my voice before.  But the lady of the farm was someone they had seen, heard, and touched before.  They knew she was kind to them, fed them, and let them out to run in the pasture.  One article I read on the internet said that sheep are emotional which is why they come to someone they know and flee from strangers.  They get stressed out just like us humans.

When we know our Shepherd, we know not just His voice, but what He looks like, and we know His touch.  We don’t know exactly what Jesus or God looks like physically, but we can know His characteristics, His personality, and His loving, healing touch. 

Trust.  The sheep didn’t totally trust me at first and only a couple of them actually came close enough for me to pet them.  They trusted the lady, though, and went to her.  Do we trust Jesus to lead us in the right paths?  Do we trust Him with our problems, our finances, our families, our future?  He knows all about us and wants us to trust Him with everything.

Sheep were treated as prized possessions in Biblical times.  Unfortunately today we tend to use the adjective dumb to describe sheep.  They’re not so dumb, though, because they know their shepherd and trust Him.  Can we say the same?

Follow.  When the mama sheep finally came to me, then the lambs came right over.  They trusted their mama and followed her lead.  Are you trusting the Good Shepherd to lead you?  Then follow Him…as the chorus goes:

Follow, I will follow thee, my Lord,
Follow ev’ry passing day
My tomorrows are all known to thee,
Thou wilt lead me all the way.

Jesus knows who are His sheep.  You may think you know and are following Him, but if He doesn’t know you, that’s a problem.  Make sure you belong to the Good Shepherd and are following His lead.  More about that in the next post.

PRAYER POINT FOR TODAY:
Lord, I want to be a good listener and a good follower, careful like sheep, and discerning. Please grant me the ears to hear and other senses to recognize Your voice.

  • Week 1 – temptation
  • Week 2 – confession, forgiveness, and fasting
  • Week 3 – listening to God and answering when He calls
  • Week 4 – God’s love for us
  • Week 5 – waiting, anxiety, and trust
  • Week 6 – suffering, pain, and struggles
  • Easter – resurrection and salvation

36 Week 3, Day 1 of Lent

“Be still, and know that I am God.”
Psalm 46:10

This week we are focusing on listening to God and answering when He calls.  (Yes, I know it’s Wednesday.  The season of Lent begins on a Wednesday so that’s when the new “week” for this Lent series begins.)  We will not be discussing talking to God because we can’t talk and listen well at the same time and this week is about listening to God.

Being still is hard for those of us who are always on the go.  My grandmother wasn’t still for one minute until she died at 94.  She always had to be doing something.  I’m the same way.  When I sit to watch a movie, I prefer to be doing something with my hands.  When waiting at a doctor’s office, I read.  It’s good to make use of down time from our normal activities, but it doesn’t allow God to be easily acknowledged and heard.

When I had a screened-in porch at my previous home, I enjoyed sitting on my porch swing and watch the clouds go by.  It was often at those times that I felt the Lord speaking to me because other than the motion of swinging, I was still…and listening.

Here are some other verses that encourage us to be still before the Lord:

  • “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.”  Exodus 14:14 (NIV)
  • “The Levites calmed all the people, saying, “Be still, for this is a holy day. Do not grieve.”  Nehemiah 8:11 (NIV)
  • “Be angry, and do not sin. Meditate within your heart on your bed, and be still.”  Psalm 4:4 (NKJV)
  • “Be still before the LORD and wait patiently for him.”  Psalm 37:7 (NIV)
  • “Then she said, “Sit still, my daughter, until you know how the matter will turn out…”  Ruth 3:18 (NKJV)
  • “He got up, rebuked the wind and said to the waves, “Quiet! Be still!” Then the wind died down and it was completely calm.”  Mark 4:39 (NIV)

What does “be still” mean?  First, it does not mean “relax, God’s got this”.  Sometimes being still can be done while on the move.  Sounds like an oxymoron, right?  Not at all when you understand what be still means.  In Hebrew if you put those two words together, it translates to surrender in order to know.  That doesn’t mean you stop everything you’re doing and stand or sit still, although sometimes that helps us focus.

Be:  Surrender.  In order to surrender, you need to make a conscious decision to focus on something other than what you were.  Often I need to get up, walk around, and then come back to what I was doing with a fresh set of eyes, especially if I’m doing difficult word searches or writing…things that take concentration.  Why do I get up?  I need to refocus so I can surrender my mind back to the task at hand.

Still:  In order to know.  Look at the few verses I listed above.  What are the reasons for being still?  Here are my thoughts on the reasons in those verses respectively:

  • So you will know that the Lord will fight for you.
  • It’s a holy day and being still has a calming effect.
  • Meditate and resolve anger.
  • Learn to wait patiently for the Lord to lead.
  • Wait until you see what the Lord does before you move on.
  • So you can experience nature and God’s commanding authority over it.

There are many more verses that talk about being still…and know that He is God.  In these few reasons I suggested from those verses for being still, they all point to knowing God.  For example, when we know that the Lord will fight for us, we will learn to trust Him more.  Try being still for a few minutes and see if your mind and body slows down and gets calm.  If you meditate on God’s Word and do what He says, things will go better for you.  Ah, patience!  You have to wait in line at the bank or the store, so wait on the Lord as well.  He will move in His time.  God has authority over nature and there’s a lot we can learn from nature when we take time to be still.

Knowing God can only truly come when we are still long enough to hear His voice and look for how He is already working in our lives.  If we keep striving and being busy with all kinds of things that occupy our minds, it will be difficult to hear from God.  Be still and really listen for God just as you would if you were straining to hear the conversation with a friend in a really noisy place.  Be as anxious to hear from God as you are to get that text, email, or letter from a friend whom you haven’t heard from for a while. 

Next we’ll talk about the example of sheep and see what their listening skills are like.

PRAYER POINT FOR TODAY:
Lord, help me to make time to be still and wait on You so I can hear Your voice.

  • Week 1 – temptation
  • Week 2 – confession, forgiveness, and fasting
  • Week 3 – listening to God and answering when He calls
  • Week 4 – God’s love for us
  • Week 5 – waiting, anxiety, and trust
  • Week 6 – suffering, pain, and struggles
  • Easter – resurrection and salvation

35 Week 2, Day 7 of Lent

Fasting!  I’m going to be upfront with you right now.  Fasting is not my favorite topic to discuss and I do not personally participate in fasts—of food anyway—for various reasons.  However, that does not mean it’s right or wrong for you to participate or to not participate as the Lord leads.  It is Biblical but is not a direct command or demand.  But the Bible does say that fasting is something good, profitable, and beneficial.

What is it?  Got Questions.org is a great resource for answers to questions about the Bible and Christian living.  In a post on Fasting, they state that fasting can be considered “Anything given up temporarily in order to focus all our attention on God”.  It does not have to be fasting from food.  It could be giving up social media (no rotten tomatoes, please!), candy, newspaper, YouTube videos, those time-consuming games on your phone or other device, romance novels, or sports (had to include men here!).  Whatever it is you want to give up, choose it wisely.  Is it feasible?  Is it doable?  Then decide how you will spend the time that you would have spent on the social media or whatever you’ve chosen.  I’m going to call the thing you want to replace an impedimentbecause that’s what it really is.  It’s impeding you from making strides in other areas because it’s taking your time, energy, and focus away from more important things.

Timing.  Fasting does not have to be a long-term extended amount of time like when Jesus fasted in the wilderness for 40 days.  It could be as simple as skipping lunch and going for a prayer walk or turning off the television and picking up your Bible for the length of time you would have watched your favorite show(s). 

Replacing.  Fasting is not just about giving up or the time saved, but about replacing it with something good or better.  This verse is not specifically talking about fasting but is applicable to both fasting and temptation.  When you give something up and don’t replace it with a better option, you could be tempted to regress or digress from the intention of the fast.

“Do not deprive each other except perhaps by
mutual consent and for a time,
so that you may devote yourselves to prayer.
Then come together again so that
Satan will not tempt you
because of your lack of self-control.”

I Corinthians 7:5, NIV

Prayer, Bible study, memorization, meditation, worship and maybe even fellowship (if it’s for the right reasons and God-centered) are all good replacements for the time you would have spent on your “impediment”.  You must realize that Satan is NOT going to like that you’ve given up something he can use to distract you and spend your time getting closer to God.  So brace yourself and be ready with those “It is written…” statements from Scripture when Satan tries to deter you from the good things God has for you when you draw close to Him.

Beware!  These good things of God are not easy to implement nor maintain.  You will start to pray and Satan will give you distracting thoughts.  You sit down and open your Bible and the phone rings.  You’re meditating on what you just read and you someone rings your doorbell.  You put on some praise music and start worshipping the Lord with it but the electric goes out or the battery depletes itself.  Even in fellowship with other Christians, there’s always the unfortunate possibility that the conversation goes off track and instead of being encouraged and built up, you find yourself in the middle of a gossip mill or a pet peeve rant.  These distractions are from Satan.  He wants you to give it up and go back to your “impediment”.  Don’t do it!  Pray.  God is stronger than Satan and will give you the victory if you submit to God rather than Satan.

Warning.  Take precautions if you are fasting from food so you don’t get dehydrated or pass out.  Don’t isolate yourself completely in case of an emergency.  Tell someone what you’re doing and where you will be if you plan to go on a hike or be somewhere other than the place you would normally be on that given day.  Turn your cell phone off but take it with you and check for messages intermittently without interrupting your time with the Lord.  Be safe.

Why?  There are good reasons to fast.  Last week we talked about temptation, specifically the three temptations of Jesus in the wilderness.  If you haven’t taken time to reflect on them, do that now.  Jesus was preparing to begin His ministry to the lost and needed to spent time in prayer and meditation before doing so.  That is the best reason I know to fast—to prepare my heart for something up ahead, or just to draw closer to the Lord.

Other reasons to fast might be when seeking guidance for a decision, discernment for how to handle a situation, to be quiet and allow the Lord to search your heart, or just to be alone with God and worship Him.  Whatever the reason and whatever “impediment” you choose to lay aside for a time, be committed to guarding that time to devote to the good/better choice you’ve made.

Blessings.  Receive the blessings God gives you as a result of your time with Him.  Then go out and share them with others.

Next we’ll head into a new topic of communicating with God which may seem redundant, but bear with me and glean what you can.

PRAYER POINT FOR TODAY:
Lord, guide me through a fast that will be meaningful and bring glory to You.

  • Week 1 – temptation
  • Week 2 – confession, forgiveness, and fasting
  • Week 3 – listening to God and answering when He calls
  • Week 4 – God’s love for us
  • Week 5 – waiting, anxiety, and trust
  • Week 6 – suffering, pain, and struggles
  • Easter – resurrection and salvation

34 Week 2, Day 6 of Lent

Are you feeling better since you confessed your sins to God and to others???  It may not be immediate, but it will come.  Even if the other person has not forgiven you, you did your part.  Leave it in God’s hands to work in their heart. 

Surgery.  The examination we talked about a few days ago is the beginning of the process.  Part of the healing process sometimes involves surgery.  When you have surgery, you don’t always instantly feel better when you wake up in recovery.  It takes time for the pain of the surgery itself to go away before you realize that the cause of the pain having been removed is now bringing healing.  So it is in your heart.  Once you’ve examined your heart, confessed your sins to God and others, now the true healing can begin.

Recovery.  You may have carried guilt and sin with you for a long time and it’s left its mark.  Now that’s behind you and you can allow the healing process to begin.

“He forgives all my sins and heals all my diseases.”
Psalm 103:3 NLT

Researchers have found that forgiveness and right relationships contribute to healing of the body.  Of course it does because God is the ultimate healer.  We probably have no idea how some of the things we do or say affect our bodies but occasionally get a glimpse when they are resolved and we are feeling better.  God wants to see us whole in spirit, mind, and body.  Take a moment to listen and worship with the song  “I Am The God That Healeth Thee”

Rest.  What does rest have to do with healing?  I think we all know that when we’re sick, we need to rest our body.  Sometimes a nap replenishes our strength and allows our body to heal.  If you break a bone and keep using that part of the body, it isn’t going to heal as quickly or properly as it would if you give it rest.  When we’ve come through a time of examination, confession, and forgiveness, we need to rest in the Lord for strength to continue on the right path.  Read the Bible and meditate on the words you read.  Let them seep into every pore of your body.

Pray.  During this period, spend extra time in prayer.  Keep praying for the person(s) you’ve wronged, that God will bring healing into their lives.  Keep praying for yourself, that you will not fall into temptation again and that if you do, the Holy Spirit will nudge you right away before you succumb to it.  Years ago I was on a prayer team and I made the patch in the picture above for us to wear so that people in that particular camp setting would know who the prayer team members were.  We made ourselves available to pray with and for everyone in that camp, and many did come and ask us to pray with them.  That is something you may want to do—find someone who is willing to pray with you.

In the beginning of this series for the season of Lent, I wrote more extensively about preparing ourselves with prayer.  So I want to remind us here that prayer is not a once-and-done thing, not a once-a-day task, nor an as-needed action.  It is CONTINUAL!  We need to be in the habit of praying without ceasing.

Suppose you decided you would only talk to your child once a day in the morning.  Then he or she goes to school or to a friend’s.  When they come home, isn’t it natural to talk about their day?  If you didn’t talk to them, you’d miss out on a lot.  God wants to hear from us throughout our days.  Yes, He already knows what’s going on in our lives, but He wants to hear about it from us.  As a parent, I might see something on social media about my kids and grandkids, but nothing beats hearing it straight from them via a phone call or text!  I’m sure God feels the same way.

Tomorrow we’ll talk about fasting, and then head into a new topic of communicating with God.

PRAYER POINT FOR TODAY:
Lord, thank You for bringing resolution and healing to me. I pray for those I’ve wronged, that they, too, may experience Your healing.

  • Week 1 – temptation
  • Week 2 – confession, forgiveness, and fasting
  • Week 3 – listening to God and answering when He calls
  • Week 4 – God’s love for us
  • Week 5 – waiting, anxiety, and trust
  • Week 6 – suffering, pain, and struggles
  • Easter – resurrection and salvation

33 Week 2, Day 5 of Lent

Forgiving ourselves.  Before we can forgive others, we need to have God’s forgiveness, and forgive ourselves.  You know what I mean???  Something happened that shouldn’t have and you are so upset that you let it happen that you can’t forget and forgive yourself.  That’s especially difficult if there is a death or injury involved.  It is definitely hard to forget such things, but it is possible to forgive ourselves which will enable us to eventually forget.

Holding yourself responsible for something that happened to you or someone else is not good.  You are not in charge of what happens in your life and to those around you.  God is the one who arranges the moves of life as you would the figures on a chess board.  You are the one in charge of the moves on the chess board, but God is in charge of what happens in life.  So if you lose a game of chess, you can blame yourself because you were the ones making the moves.

In life, you are not totally responsible for the outcome of a situation.  You may have unknowingly or even purposefully contributed to a wrong and need to own up to your part, but God’s got it.  He can make a wrong right, but don’t blame Him when a right goes wrong when it’s your fault.  He wants to teach you through those hard times.  So when you confess your part in the wrong and ask forgiveness, it becomes God’s responsibility.  Now you and God can work to make it right.

Asking others to forgive us.  This is the next step after talking with God about a sin that is against someone else.  This is probably the harder of the steps and many people want to skip this one because they think that if they tell God, they don’t have to make it right with anyone else.  Not true!

If the other person whom you’ve offended or wronged is not aware of what happened, it might be best to not only pray about it but talk it over with a pastor or counselor.  (See the link on my home page for a good counselor who does Zoom.)  There are times when confession to another person may not be the best thing to do, but as a rule of thumb, we should always confess to the other person.

When we go to the other person and ask forgiveness, we not only help ourselves but them to deal with the situation and move on.  Explanations can be helpful.  You and the other person might have a totally different perspective as to what went wrong and one or both perspectives may not be the truth in the matter.  Being honest and talking it out is the point where healing begins.

Why should I forgive you?  If in the past you’ve had a bad experience with confessing and not receiving an acknowledgement of forgiveness or they threw it right back at you, you may wonder if you want to do this again.  That is natural.  I had that experience with someone and it’s disconcerting.  But not every situation is going to be the same. 

“Forgive others, and you will be forgiven.” (Luke 6:37b, NLT)  Everyone needs forgiveness whether they are the offender or the offended.  “Even if that person wrongs you seven times a day and each time turns again and asks forgiveness, you must forgive.” (Luke 17:4, NLT)  Repeated offenses are exasperating and we tend to not want to forgive, but Jesus tells us not to keep tabs…just forgive!

“For if you forgive other people when they sin against you,
your heavenly Father will also forgive you.
But if you do not forgive others their sins,
your Father will not forgive your sins.”

Matthew 6:14-15

Forgiving others.  I’ve also had opportunities to attempt reconciliation that though it was a rough start came around to reconciliation.  We need to forgive others if we want to be forgiven by God and others. 

When I was little, my dog was left too close to my toys overnight and he chewed up one of my dolls’ dresses.  As a child, I was so mad.  As I look back now as an adult, that was the least significant loss of my life.  I had to forgive my dog because he was just a puppy and didn’t know his toys from mine.  If I hadn’t forgiven him, we would not have enjoyed our times together.

Results.  Knowing that we have done our best no matter what the outcome should ease our conscience.  Letting it in God’s hands is the best place for it to be.  This is where healing and prayer come in which we’ll talk about tomorrow, and the next day fasting.

PRAYER POINT FOR TODAY:
Lord, it is so hard to go to another person and tell them the wrong I’ve done/said, but please give me Your strength to take that necessary step, and prepare the way.

  • Week 1 – temptation
  • Week 2 – confession, forgiveness, and fasting
  • Week 3 – listening to God and answering when He calls
  • Week 4 – God’s love for us
  • Week 5 – waiting, anxiety, and trust
  • Week 6 – suffering, pain, and struggles
  • Easter – resurrection and salvation

32 Week 2, Day 4 of Lent

This week we covered examination and confession so far.  Now we move on to forgiveness.

God’s Forgiveness. God’s forgiveness could be likened to a prisoner’s pardon.  When a prisoner receives a pardon, he is given a release from prison, cancelation of his sentence, and freedom to go home.  God’s forgiveness extends a pardon or acquittal of guilt and sin, a clear record, and a promise of eternal life.

God is way more merciful and kind than we are. When someone does something wrong, man is ready to throw the book at them, lock them up, and throw away the key…not that it shouldn’t be done in some cases…but my point is that God is merciful and kind to the repentant sinner.  He knows man’s heart and sees whether or not a person’s repentance is genuine and will deal with that accordingly.  In the above Psalm, it shows us that God was not pleased with His people but held back the anger and fury He felt, and instead forgave them and gave them many second chances to get it right.  He wants to forgive but we must do our part and confess, repent, and ask for His forgiveness.

Second Chances.  Have you asked God to forgive you for something?  Then what happened?  Did you stay on the straight and narrow way or did you find yourself repeating the same thing again?  God forgives and forgets—until we do it again.  Then we have to ask forgiveness and start over.  He gives second chances numerous times, but just like a line at the store, there is an end to it.  Don’t take advantage of God’s second chances because it may be the last second chance.

During the Covid pandemic I learned of a place that was giving away free potatoes at a specific time and place.  Even though I left very early, traffic near that location was bumper to bumper.  I spent almost three hours weaving in and out of an extremely long line in a parking lot, only to get to the end where the potatoes were one car too late.  The car in front of me was the last one to get free potatoes before they ran out.  God’s mercy is like that supply of potatoes.  It lasts for a long time, but there is an end when God says enough!  So don’t zigzag in and out, hoping God will forgive you when you get to the end of the line (life).  Seek forgiveness now while you can.  Tomorrow may be too late.

Generously.  God forgives generously (Isaiah 55:7).  I love generous people.  I’ve had those in my life who gave whatever and whenever they could to others in need.  They would gladly give the shirt off their back if that was what was needed.  I’ve also known those who were stingy and could have afforded to help but for some unknown reason refused.

“And do not neglect doing good and sharing,
for with such sacrifices God is pleased.”

Hebrews 13:16, NASB

God is generous with us and I believe He wants us to be generous with others.  Too often, though, our financial needs are met by God, but then we put the excess in the bank for a rainy day instead of helping someone else who could use help.  It’s called paying it forward.  Years ago that would have been me.  I was a bit of a miser at times because our budget was tight.  I was not completely trusting God at that time because if I was, I would have shared with others in their need.  Now sometimes I leap a little too quickly to help others and then realize I have a bill to pay and should have waited to share.  God wants us to take care of our own commitments and then as He provides and we are able, give to the needs of family, friends, missionaries, and others.

Results.  Confession and repentance needs to take place before God can forgive us.  He waits for us to come to Him with confession on our lips and repentance in our heart.  Do it STAT:  Stop sinning, Tell Him that we’re sorry for what we’ve done, Ask His forgiveness, and Turn from our sin.  When we do, He will forgive because that’s Who He is.

Tomorrow we’ll continue to talk more about forgiveness in terms of forgiving others, and then healing, prayer and fasting.

PRAYER POINT FOR TODAY:
Lord, I know that You know everything—everything I’ve done and said and more. Thank You for second chances to get it right. Please forgive me for _ and give me Your strength to turn away from it and stay on the right path.

  • Week 1 – temptation
  • Week 2 – confession, forgiveness, and fasting
  • Week 3 – listening to God and answering when He calls
  • Week 4 – God’s love for us
  • Week 5 – waiting, anxiety, and trust
  • Week 6 – suffering, pain, and struggles
  • Easter – resurrection and salvation

31 Week 2, Day 3 of Lent

This week we are focusing on confession, forgiveness, and fasting and all that entails.  We completed our examination prep and the first step of confession to God.  Today I want to talk about confessing to others.

Confession—what is it?  When you need to confess a sin to someone else, take time for preparation and prayer before plunging ahead.  Just like a kid who apologizes because a parent or teacher says they have to, you don’t want it to sound insincere or forced.  Confession to another person might look different depending on the situation, the person, and the timing between when it happened and when you’re confessing.

Confession—to whom?  The Bible is very clear about that.  Confess your sins to one another.  Now that does not mean you confess to Jane what you did to Mary.  It means you confess to Mary what you did to Mary.  The sin is between the two of you and no one else unless someone saw or heard what happened.  Then an added confession may be needed to clear the air for everyone involved.  That’s something else to pray about.

Why?  There’s nothing worse than trying to avoid someone because you know there’s something between you, especially if they don’t know your part in it.  Coming clean about your sin allows a relationship with that person to be restored as well as your relationship with God to be restored.  Just confessing to God is only the first step.  Taking the second step towards the person you’ve sinned against is harder, but if you pray about it beforehand, God will take care of the results.  You may be afraid of what their response will be, but don’t be…just leave the results in God’s hands.

Confessing breaks the power of sin and Satan over our lives.  Covering up sin doesn’t profit anything, but confessing brings release of sin’s power, forgiveness, and restoration.  If we don’t confess our sin, it isolates us from others and God.  Having a clear conscience is also very important in an unspotted witness to the world.  Don’t give anyone a chance to defame you or the Lord nor criticize you due to unconfessed sin.  Confessing is not just for ourselves, but also so that others will not be able to find fault in us.

“Keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak
Maliciously against your good behavior in Christ
may be ashamed of their slander.”

1 Peter 3:16, NIV

When?  I don’t think there’s any specific guidelines as to when to confess to other people, but the sooner, the better.  If you let it go, sin is still present in your heart until you take that second step of confessing to the other person.  If it is something that just happened, it’s best to take care of it right away.  I’ve read too many books and watched too many movies where someone was wronged and it almost destroyed a relationship.  But when the person who sinned finally went and confessed, the relationship was restored.  If it’s something that took place a long, long time ago, it’s not exempt, but you will most likely need to bathe it in extended prayer before digging up the past which in itself is usually painful.

However, one time frame that the Bible does mention about confession is in the following verse:

“So if you are presenting a sacrifice at the altar in the Temple
and you suddenly remember that someone has something against you,
leave your sacrifice there at the altar.
Go and be reconciled to that person.
Then come and offer your sacrifice to God.”

Matthew 5:23–24, NLT

So before you present yourself for worship, service, or participating in the Lord’s Supper is definitely a time when confession should be a priority.

Results.  A clear conscience and a restored relationship with the other person and God are the best results I can think of.  Any other reason is merely complimentary or an added bonus. 

For the next two days we’ll look at forgiveness and then prayer and fasting.

PRAYER POINT FOR TODAY:
Lord, it is so hard to go to another person and tell them the wrong I’ve done/said, but please give me Your strength to take that necessary step, and prepare the way.

  • Week 1 – temptation
  • Week 2 – confession, forgiveness, and fasting
  • Week 3 – listening to God and answering when He calls
  • Week 4 – God’s love for us
  • Week 5 – waiting, anxiety, and trust
  • Week 6 – suffering, pain, and struggles
  • Easter – resurrection and salvation

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